2026-02-15 12:23:49

5 SIGNS IT’S TIME TO DUMP HER.

1. She’s always “busy.”
No one is too busy for someone they truly value. If she consistently can’t make time for you, you’re not a priority.
2. She makes zero effort.
Relationships require mutual effort. If you’re the only one sacrificing, planning, giving, and showing up. That’s not partnership.
3. Her ex lives rent-free in conversations.
If she keeps comparing you or bringing him up, she’s either not over him or trying to manipulate you. Either way, it’s a red flag.
4. She never takes accountability.
Everyone makes mistakes. If she can’t admit when she’s wrong and always flips the blame on you, that’s emotional immaturity.
5. You feel drained, not supported.
Your partner should be your peace, not your pressure.
If you’re constantly stressed, undervalued, or walking on eggshells don’t ignore it.
Love should build you up, not wear you down.

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