Seeing an acquaintance jump into a fire pit, is your first reaction to pull them out? Then you're not far from bad luck either.

The logic of ordinary people: I'm doing this for your good, afraid you'll be scammed, afraid you'll take a detour, trying to use your limited experience to interfere with others' karma.

The logic of the person involved: If you block me, you're blocking my way to wealth, can't stand to see me do well; only when he truly falls headlong and bloodied will he realize that it's society's blow, not your foresight.

Once, a friend insisted on going all-in on a low-quality project. I showed him data about risks and explained that the model was unsustainable. He rolled his eyes: "Fortune favors the brave, you're just too conservative, no wonder you can't get rich."

Later, after hitting zero, he didn't reflect on his greed but instead went around saying I was a "crowing mouth" ruining his luck.

Remember, in the adult world, it's only about filtering, not educating. The suffering he endures is the tuition he must pay within his cognitive loop. If you insist on playing the "savior," you're actually stealing his lesson.

Watching him crash into the wall, stay silent, don't reach out. You might even stand by the side and clap: "Buddy, that pose is really cool."