I heard a story from a friend that really hit home. He needed to add margin and asked his wife for money, but she refused. He was so angry he couldn’t find a place to vent, so he smashed things at home. Later, his wife didn’t think much and went back to her parents’ house. The next day, she handed him a divorce agreement. Both of them knew exactly what the situation was, so there was nothing to say, and they signed it directly.
This story is quite common in the crypto circle. Thinking about it carefully, traders are indeed prone to falling into a strange cycle — when the market fluctuates, their mentality spirals out of control; when their mentality is out of control, their family also suffers. The mindset of leveraging, chasing margins, and going all-in to turn things around, when applied to life, becomes a gambler’s mentality. In the eyes of family members, your money is no longer just money; it’s a chip that ties the whole family together. Once losses reach a certain critical point, trust completely collapses. That’s why the divorce rate in the crypto world is indeed higher than in other industries — frankly, the trading profession itself carries high pressure and high risk, and this pressure ultimately weighs on those around them.
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LadderToolGuy
· 13h ago
The moment you smash something, it's over. The bottom line of family members drops much faster than the K-line.
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MidnightTrader
· 13h ago
That's why I don't dare tell my family what I'm doing... The moment I started smashing things, the marriage was basically over.
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ColdWalletGuardian
· 13h ago
Breaking things at home... really, it's more damaging than losing money. Trust is gone, and no matter how much money you have, it's useless.
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OnchainDetective
· 13h ago
According to on-chain data, this guy's family asset allocation indeed shows serious abnormalities—treating his wife as an ATM, a typical sign of a looming capital chain rupture. The moment he started smashing things, his mindset was completely out of control; this is the most straightforward example of emotional trading spilling over into life that I have seen. The divorce agreement was signed instantly, indicating that their financial connection had long since broken down. Interestingly, this pattern repeats in the crypto circle, clearly revealing how leverage mentality corrupts human nature.
I heard a story from a friend that really hit home. He needed to add margin and asked his wife for money, but she refused. He was so angry he couldn’t find a place to vent, so he smashed things at home. Later, his wife didn’t think much and went back to her parents’ house. The next day, she handed him a divorce agreement. Both of them knew exactly what the situation was, so there was nothing to say, and they signed it directly.
This story is quite common in the crypto circle. Thinking about it carefully, traders are indeed prone to falling into a strange cycle — when the market fluctuates, their mentality spirals out of control; when their mentality is out of control, their family also suffers. The mindset of leveraging, chasing margins, and going all-in to turn things around, when applied to life, becomes a gambler’s mentality. In the eyes of family members, your money is no longer just money; it’s a chip that ties the whole family together. Once losses reach a certain critical point, trust completely collapses. That’s why the divorce rate in the crypto world is indeed higher than in other industries — frankly, the trading profession itself carries high pressure and high risk, and this pressure ultimately weighs on those around them.