The so-called "first sword to land" in breaking free is to cut down the one you truly love. This statement is not entirely accurate. I have many friends around me who, after becoming successful, chose to get divorced.

However, they still have good character. When they divorced, they left everything to their ex-wives and left with nothing.

In conversations with them, I found that they are not the so-called "first sword to land" to cut down the one they love, but rather, from the beginning, their wives were not the people they loved.

Initially, whether in terms of social experience, earning ability, or social class, it was very difficult for them to choose a partner. So at that time, they preferred to choose a "wife" who was willing to accompany them from nothing to something, the most suitable one.

But as they continued to grow and become more outstanding, they were willing to give all their compensation to the woman who accompanied them. However, no matter what, they couldn't suppress the desire to find their true love.

Of course, there are also a few men around who, after becoming successful, did not get divorced because the woman was the one they loved from the beginning, even initially wanting to give her a good life, and through perseverance, made life better.

Men and women have always been different. Women may turn someone they don't love into someone they love out of gratitude, being moved, or for various reasons. But it seems that whether a man loves or not is decided from the very beginning.