A typical Chinese family member says: From now on, we need to fully cut down education costs. Keep your money in two places. The first is for when your child can't get into a good university in the future, so they can rely on their parents. The second is for when your child can't get into a good university, but discovers their own talents, and you support them in pursuing it. Currently, out of 100 children, only 1 can get into 985 universities. Only 2 out of 100 can get into 211 universities. Out of 100 children, 20 suffer from depression. Are you sure that your poor pressure can turn your child into a 985 or 211 student? Are you sure you won't turn them into one of the 20 with depression? Keep your money, and you won't be so anxious. If you're less anxious, you won't push them so hard. If you don't push so hard, they might actually do better than you.

Don't let them listen to you, because listening to you won't make them honest, strong, or happier. Let them develop vigorously according to their own vitality—that's the best blessing you can give as parents. From a young age, tell your child one thing: You were not born to work for others, not to be a beast of burden for others. You have your own career to pursue. You have things you love to do. You will definitely not become a worker like me in the future. You must be your own person. You're not working for others. Not everything that everyone does is correct. What everyone does is what most people will become cannon fodder for. You only need to be yourself. Mom and Dad will always support you.