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Little Nine bloomed, usually just tending to some flowers and plants. These flowers are given extreme care but only grow leaves without blooming. When left to grow freely, and occasionally watered and fertilized, they actually thrive.

People are the same. In the random murder incident a couple of days ago, parents tightened their control, and the child began to shut themselves off and not contact home. When something happens, whose problem is it?
We are not parties involved, nor are we their family, so we cannot make any judgments. However, I believe that the relationship between parents and children must also allow each other space.

During a child's early years, parents are guides and educators.
As children enter their rebellious phase, parents should transition to being friends and counselors.
When he becomes an adult and enters society, you will only provide companionship and advice.

The mindset of my parents' generation is that all professions are inferior, only reading is noble. Therefore, I understand the pain of being forced into such a mindset. After growing up, my relationship with my father was always poor; apart from greeting him, there was no other interaction until he passed away.

Each generation has its own blessings; you can't intervene in your children's future forever. It's better to maintain a positive interaction and let each other be well.