How many people initially got into trading because of the thrill, only to have that excitement gradually consume them?
You might have seen those kinds of people—cell phones never leaving their hands for 24 hours, candlestick charts etched in their minds, their entire life revolving around watching the market, placing orders, and closing positions. In the beginning, there were indeed moments of pleasure, but over time, that pleasure turned into torment. A single limit-down can wipe out an entire month, and a margin call can cause the entire world to collapse.
Those who can truly survive in the trading world share a common trait: they know how to leave space in their lives. Exercise, reading, socializing, hobbies—the world outside of trading is just as important to them. This is not distraction; on the contrary, it’s a sign of living more consciously.
Why? Because when life has other outlets, trading won't become your only emotional escape. When the market is bad, you won't overtrade out of boredom, and even after losses, you can calmly review and reflect instead of despairing alone in a corner.
People who do nothing but trade every day will eventually break down. Either they go crazy from boredom or are crushed by a single loss. But traders who know how to balance see trading as just a part of life, not the whole. Persisting like this, trading can actually become a true source of joy.
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PancakeFlippa
· 2h ago
That's quite true, but I think 99% of people simply can't do it. Once they taste the thrill of making money, they can't stop.
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SmartContractRebel
· 2h ago
It's really heartfelt. I've only seen people like that around me—phones never leaving their hands, and they can't sleep peacefully even after a 2% drop.
Really? Is that initial thrill worth it? The rest is just negative feedback.
Staring at the market every day like taking drugs, honestly, it's just an emotional trash can.
I have deep personal experience with this. I actually make more money when I'm not trading.
That's right. Living without other pursuits can really drive you crazy.
Life can't be just about trading. What's the point of living then?
People who know how to let go are the true winners; everyone else is just self-consoling.
My roommate is slowly being consumed by this. Now he doesn't want to do anything anymore.
Every day, eyes glued to the candlestick charts—this mental state will eventually cause problems.
Trading is essentially a game of probabilities. If you make it your entire life, you're not far from suicide.
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WhaleSurfer
· 2h ago
Really, I have friends like that around me, now I can't even see them, they're all glued to the screen
The time I got liquidated, I just couldn't recover, felt like I was completely useless
People who understand balance do live longer, but honestly, how many can really do it
Trading addiction is even more ruthless than gambling, at least with gambling you know you're gambling
I'm the kind of person who watches the screen every day, and recently I started working out, and I found my mindset really changing
A single limit-down can ruin a month's income, that hits hard, everyone who's been through it understands that despair
The key is, after cutting losses, you want to turn things around, but it only gets deeper, you really can't dig out of this hole
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rugpull_ptsd
· 2h ago
That's right, I've seen too many people like that. How are they doing now?
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LuckyBlindCat
· 2h ago
That's so true. I know a few people like that around me, and now they've all been dragged in. They spend every day just watching the charts, ignoring everything else.
I almost became like that myself. It wasn't until I started working out that I pulled through. Trading really shouldn't become the entire meaning of life.
A friend of mine once blew up his account and went into depression. Now he's hardly willing to talk about the market.
It's really a mindset issue. Having other pursuits makes life much clearer. Now I’d rather earn less and go out for a walk.
The most ruthless are those who say "I live off trading," which sounds hopeless. This path won't last long.
How many people initially got into trading because of the thrill, only to have that excitement gradually consume them?
You might have seen those kinds of people—cell phones never leaving their hands for 24 hours, candlestick charts etched in their minds, their entire life revolving around watching the market, placing orders, and closing positions. In the beginning, there were indeed moments of pleasure, but over time, that pleasure turned into torment. A single limit-down can wipe out an entire month, and a margin call can cause the entire world to collapse.
Those who can truly survive in the trading world share a common trait: they know how to leave space in their lives. Exercise, reading, socializing, hobbies—the world outside of trading is just as important to them. This is not distraction; on the contrary, it’s a sign of living more consciously.
Why? Because when life has other outlets, trading won't become your only emotional escape. When the market is bad, you won't overtrade out of boredom, and even after losses, you can calmly review and reflect instead of despairing alone in a corner.
People who do nothing but trade every day will eventually break down. Either they go crazy from boredom or are crushed by a single loss. But traders who know how to balance see trading as just a part of life, not the whole. Persisting like this, trading can actually become a true source of joy.