There is a state of mind: allowing everything to happen at any time. This includes permitting all absurdities to occur and all ugliness to exist. Life itself is unstoppable, and human nature is deeply unfathomable. Whether you are afraid or not, it makes no difference. So, you might as well make the worst plans, allowing these things to come at any moment, confronting them head-on, adapting as needed, and no longer worrying or fearing.