There's a harsh reality: women like men who have money, not men who spend big money on them.

Cai Lan once said, "When people know I have over a billion in my account, to catch this big fish, women not only don't want my money, they'll actually spend money on me instead. But if my card only has a few thousand total today, and I give her all those thousands to spend, after she enjoys it, all she'll say is: I'm sorry, you're a good guy. That's the difference between spending money and having money. It's harsh, but it's the truth."

Look at Wanda's young master Wang taking beautiful women to eat at roadside stalls—pretty stingy, right? But he just keeps dating one beautiful woman after another.

Liu from Suqian signed a prenuptial agreement, yet he still married a pure and beautiful Tsinghua girl.

Hong Kong's King of Songs Guo, when he got married, wore a 300,000 yuan custom suit himself and gave his wife a 20,000 yuan dress—pretty inconsiderate, right? But his wife was still willing to have kids with him one after another.

Some might say this means women are materialistic, not materialistic, but love might just be admiration for the strong, not being moved by the weak.

Work hard to make money, young guys.