“Miss Ninga needs a Mr. Pushaway”

Every time I see this sentence, I find it quite disgusting. The subtext is: my close relationship partner needs to take all responsibility for my emotions, otherwise he is not suitable for me.
In fact, apart from the turtle man, no one is unpushable.
A mature person does not need to test love by pushing away; a valuable person will not allow themselves to be repeatedly pushed away and remain standing in the same place.