After several years of trading contracts, my biggest realization is: surviving is more important than making quick profits.



I've seen people get rich overnight by watching the market at 3 a.m., and I've seen them wipe out their accounts the next day. Those who truly take root in this market never rely on one lucky trade, but on the principles ingrained in their bones.

I've paid my fair share of tuition as well. From getting slapped by the market over and over in the beginning to now being able to survive relatively steadily, it's all thanks to these habits I've slowly developed:

**Always leave yourself a way out.** Control your position size whenever you can. Even if it looks like a sure thing, go in with half. There are plenty of opportunities in the market; losing your principal is the real end.

**If you’re wrong twice in a row, stop trading.** If you keep misjudging the same coin, it's not a technical issue—it means your emotions are off. The best thing to do is step away and calm down, not force it.

**Decide on your stop loss before opening a trade.** This is where I’ve suffered the biggest losses. I thought I was right and didn’t set protection, only to get wiped out by a sudden price spike. Even a small stop loss is better than liquidation.

**If the market lacks rhythm, stay away.** When trading volume is low, prices are choppy, and market sentiment is scattered, it’s hard to hold on to profits even if you enter. In this kind of market, it’s better to just watch.

**Don’t get jealous of other people’s trades.** Whenever I see someone showing off their gains and feel tempted to copy them, I remind myself: their rhythm is not your rhythm. If you lose your own rhythm, you lose your own money.

**When there are no opportunities, staying out is also a strategy.** Trading isn’t a 9-to-5 job; you don’t need to take action every day. Sometimes the best move is to do nothing and wait for a real opportunity.

**Don’t try to win back losses immediately.** After consecutive losses, it’s easy to get emotional and add to your position, hoping to make it all back at once. In reality, this usually leads to even bigger losses. Lighten your positions or just take a break for a few days—it works much better than forcing it.

**Short-term trading is about rhythm, not guts.** If you can’t read support, resistance, and volume dynamics, don’t rush into short-term trades. Even if your direction is right, without the right timing, you’re just spinning your wheels.

**Don’t force yourself to find reasons to enter.** Real opportunities don’t need you to seek them out—they jump out at you. If you have to convince yourself “this level should be fine,” it’s probably not a good time.

**Every review must clearly record three things.** Why you entered, why you exited, and if there’s anything you can improve. These notes may seem troublesome, but they determine how far you can go on this path.

This market is never short on opportunities, nor on hardworking people. What’s lacking is the underlying logic that allows you to stay steady, no matter how the trends change.

It’s easy to set rules, but few can truly stick to them. I’m still on the journey, walking it with you.
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OfflineNewbievip
· 8h ago
So true—yet so many people just won’t listen and have to get wiped out by the market before they understand. That line, “If you’re wrong twice in a row, you must stop,” really resonates with me. I used to stubbornly hold on, and it only got worse. Surviving is winning—there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.
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MEVHunterZhangvip
· 12-07 08:08
Absolutely right. I've seen too many people chasing quick money end up with nothing, while those who take it slow are still around. Stop after two consecutive mistakes—this rule has saved my account several times. Watching others' trades every day and getting envious usually just turns you into the bag holder. Other people's pace really isn't your pace. I think the hardest thing is staying in cash and waiting for an opportunity; it always feels like doing nothing is losing money. For stop-loss settings, I now always calculate them before opening a position, otherwise one quick spike and it's all gone. Keeping a trading journal seems tedious, but it's actually the fastest way to improve.
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PancakeFlippavip
· 12-07 03:52
Really, staying alive is the most important thing. I've also dreamed of getting rich overnight. --- I used to stubbornly hold on after making two consecutive mistakes, but now I just bail out immediately—lesson learned the hard way. --- Staying in cash is truly an art; I'm practicing it right now. --- Cutting losses is easy to talk about but hard to do—my fingers even tremble. --- Someone else's trades always look great, but as soon as I follow, it tanks. --- That last point is spot on—writing reviews is more exhausting than making trades, but it really changed me. --- I went from dreaming of getting rich at 3 a.m. to getting liquidated the next day; now I just lay low and wait for opportunities. --- Setting rules is easy, but sticking to them turns my brain to mush. --- The biggest lesson I've learned these past few years is knowing when to keep quiet and do nothing. --- I kind of regret that no one told me these things before—I paid too much in tuition.
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quiet_lurkervip
· 12-07 03:50
That really hits home. Last year, I was the one who got rich at 3 a.m. and then liquidated the next day... If you make two mistakes in a row, you have to stop. This rule works best for me. I used to always think about making it back on the next trade, but now I understand—surviving is winning. What you said about stop-loss is so true. I’ve been wiped out so many times just by those wicks. Now, I really appreciate taking small stop-losses. But staying in cash is a strategy too—this is something I’m still learning. Seeing others profit makes me itch to trade, it’s tough.
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MemeKingNFTvip
· 12-07 03:49
Seeing this article suddenly reminded me of last year’s NFT crash, when so many people chased the highs like sleepwalkers, only to be wiped out with a single spike. The words really hit home, especially the part about “if you’re wrong twice in a row, you must stop”—that’s exactly what I failed to do. It took three consecutive losses in blue-chip projects before I finally woke up, and I’m still shaken by it. This market is really all about repeatedly testing your fundamental logic during the bottoming phase. It’s not about how fast you can make money, but how long you can survive. The true moment of enlightenment often comes only after you’ve been slapped in the face.
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YieldChaservip
· 12-07 03:34
What this guy said is absolutely right—staying alive is way more important than getting rich quick. I used to want to go all-in too, but ended up getting liquidated and really regretted it. --- Reviewing past trades is a genius suggestion. Now I jot down everything after each one, and I’m slowly starting to see where I keep messing up. --- I’ve also gotten jealous seeing other people post their wins, but after following a few trades and getting wrecked, I learned my lesson. --- The most painful thing is wanting to make back your losses—that’s exactly how I got stuck and couldn’t get out. --- “Being in cash is also a strategy”—I need to etch this into my mind. You don’t have to participate in everything. --- Stop-losses have actually saved me a few times. For those who don’t set them—well, you know how they’re doing now. --- If you get it wrong twice in a row, you have to stop trading. That’s the truth. A lot of people blow up because they think “just one more time.” --- The whole logic is clear, but the key is who can really stick with it. Most people just can’t. --- Markets without a rhythm are the most dangerous. I used to force my way in, only learned my lesson after losing big.
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ser_ngmivip
· 12-07 03:26
Damn, I totally relate to the rule of stopping after two consecutive mistakes. Otherwise, you just keep losing more trying to make it back. You're absolutely right, survival is the key. No matter how fast you make money, it doesn't matter if you can't stay in the game. The line "being in cash is also a strategy" really hit me. I used to want to trade every day and ended up losing even more. The part about not setting a stop loss is so true. I've been liquidated by wicks before too, now I always set protection properly. Copy trading is such a trap. You can't follow someone else's rhythm. Even though I know this, I still end up copying and it always leads to disaster. The advice to write down three things in your review is great. I've noted it down, looks like I need to start building this habit. Forcing entries—always trying to find a reason to place a trade—now I finally get that this is where losses start. Sounds simple, but it's hard to actually do. The real test is how long you can stick with it.
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